Travel, for many, is about arrival at a chosen destination. Other people enjoy the souvenirs they acquire at various stops. For me, when it comes to travel I'm a people person.
The focus of my most memorable
travel stories always seems to revolve around a random conversation, a street
performer or a chance encounter with a lovable local lunatic. Aside from tips
on where to go, what to do and what to see, the people of the world, more often
than not, offer perspective – a unique view that you just can’t get from a
guidebook. At its root, that’s what travel is all about: interacting with
people, places and things that we normally would not interact with. In the
process, we exchange ideas in a sort of international lifestyle best-practices
roundtable.
You don’t have to debate
the meaning of life with every Frenchman along the Seine, or chitchat with a
goofy street performer while he dances a jig on a sidewalk. Interacting and
observing both provide an opportunity to appreciate the locals doing what they
do best. It takes very little effort to enjoy the kindness of strangers abroad.
I have been astonished,
embraced, intoxicated, amused, educated and inspired by locals the world over.
One evening in Munich I
met Alex. He was a blonde bear of a man, large and wide with a shaggy beard and
shaggier hair pulled back underneath a traditional, wide-brimmed German hat. We
were at the city’s world-famous Hofbrauhaus when he slammed his stein down onto
our table and dropped himself onto my bench. More than a few suds sloshed over
onto his lederhosen and traditional Bavarian garb. But Alex didn’t care. In
fact, I doubt Alex had a care in the world that night. We spent hour after hour
drinking down steins and exchanging stories about our home, his home and
everywhere in between. In the late hours of the evening Alex yanked me up by my
shirt collar and taught me how to sing the traditional Bavarian drinking song,
capped with a crash of the beer mugs.
Regardless of where you
are, even if you don’t speak the language, it can never hurt to strike up a
conversation while traveling. You may be ignored or scoffed at, or you may get
the directions you needed or a good restaurant recommendation. At the very
least, you will have made the attempt at indulging another culture.
Dublin, Ireland is another city itching to
embrace its visitors. Enter almost any pub and raise a pint of Guinness with
the locals at the bar. The Irish are happy to engage anyone in storytelling and
if you have the time, they have the words to fill it.
On a recent trip to Dublin, I
ditched the lines of tourists standing on cobblestones waiting to see the Book
of Kells and instead popped into a nearby pub for some food and drink.
Immediately upon entering, I was greeted by a wave of Dubliners cheering on
their hometown Irish Football team, who happened to be playing a semi-final
playoff match against Mayo. Over a few pints, the rowdy locals taught me the
brutal rules of Irish Football and urged me to cheer along with them.
Learning
about a location’s culture does not require a conversation, though. People
watching can provide information and entertainment in any corner of the world.
Salzburg, Austria is a
picturesque mountain town nestled amongst fortresses and fairytale buildings.
Everything here is full of whimsy, including their board games. On a stunning
sunny morning I stumbled upon a courtyard in the shadow of one of Salzburg’s
beautiful churches. There, two men were engaged in a heated chess match with an
oversized chess set, right in the middle of the courtyard, surrounded by the
city's soaring, gorgeous spires. A gentleman in orange was playing an older
gentleman dressed in his Sunday best. They were a couple of Austrian pugilists
doing battle in a checkered, concrete arena.
I lingered along with a
few dozen other passers-by. When a horse-drawn carriage trotted by in the
background, the whole scene gained a strange nostalgic ambiance. A few moves
later, the man in the orange won the match to his foe's great dismay. Instead
of sulk, the loser approached the winner and they shook hands politely. They
immediately began setting up for a rematch.
To truly experience a
place, you should get to know those who know it best. Most of us don’t have the
time to do so very intimately, but it only takes a moment to say hello in a
foreign language or sit on a bench to listen to a street musician. The locals
can give you a more intricate perspective of the city or town they inhabit. If
they’re lucky, they will gain a little perspective from your outsider’s view in
return. Whether you travel for business or pleasure, at home or abroad, you
should always travel for the people.
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